Destined by fate. You can find out your life goal by date of birth

People are very afraid of expenses and partings, andpauses with any uncertainty often fill us with panic.“What if nothing ever happens in my life again?” It will happen, it will happen. It will happen somehow - that’s for sure, but to make it better than just “somehow”, you need to work hard.

They say that all lessons are best taught at a distance. In the ideal case, of course, you need to prepare for a relationship before the relationship, as, indeed, for all others important stages and the events of our lives, but it depends on who is lucky, who knows what we are destined to do there. Someone manages to buy necessary knowledge before fateful meeting, and others have to fire, water, yes copper pipes winning your happiness from life is not all that important in reality. I would like to draw your attention to the fact that sometimes it’s better to pause and pay attention to unlearned lessons separately, instead of jointly destroying something that is not yet strong enough.

No need to be afraid of breakups! Everything that is yours will definitely come back.
Week, month, year - it doesn't matter. Everything that’s yours will definitely come back, or rather, it won’t really be able to go anywhere. It seems that you have decided that everything is over, but life constantly pushes you and pushes you along the way. But it doesn’t allow us to get close to each other, because each of you needs time to mature. Mature for each other or for other partners - no one knows how your pause will end.

At times periods turn into commas, and sometimes they hang in the air like ambiguous ellipses.

We are very afraid of separation, but we are even more afraid of getting closer. And here, go try to choose the lesser of two evils. A step towards - personal boundaries collapse, the ego dissolves, where are you, where is he - but who would know, it’s scary. Two steps back are much safer, that’s how we dance – one step forward, two steps back. To come close and push away, to want more than anything to be close, but never dare to step into the unknown.

To let someone else close, you need to learn to know yourself. Each of us has both light and shadow. Learn to accept your shadow, learn to love who is inside, learn to be grateful for what already exists in each of us. Often we rush to conquer another person without really even knowing ourselves. Why rush? Why conquer? Go deeper, study what is inside each of us, spring will come and the flowers will bloom on their own. People do not meet by chance, every meeting has some meaning, but what that meaning is is not always possible to figure out, at least not right away. Big things can be seen from a distance.

The deeper and more subtle the world you discover within yourself, the more resilient (but not insensitive) you become to change. external environment. If the sun is shining inside, does it make a difference what the weather is like outside? Do you remember what inscription was on King Solomon's ring? “Everything passes, and this too will pass!” Pauses end one day, partings are replaced by meetings again, what kind of meetings - time will tell, but for now, each of us has something to do.

The topic of our departure from life is one of the most mysterious and sacred. For many centuries, humanity has tried to comprehend this secret. Does fate exist? How free are we to create our own life scenario? Can a person involuntarily or consciously draw out (“craw out”) his departure or, conversely, by an effort of will push back the fateful date?

Death is just a transition

Two dates

Psychics and magicians talk about the multivariate nature of the future and promise any development of events in their sessions. Psychologists assure us that with the help of special psychotechniques it is even possible to guess the “rainy day” and move it as far as possible.
Undoubtedly, every person has a choice of directions in which life path may change in one direction or the other. But... as numerous facts and ancient treatises testify, these changes concern only the basis of life and can occur within two initially programmed dates - the day of arrival into this world and the day of departure. We can influence the quality of our lives, but we can change the most important dates We can't do it.
Researchers from Stanford (California, USA) recently completed an experiment called “Life Span”, which began... 90 years ago, in 1921. More than one and a half thousand children participated in the experiment and were monitored throughout their lives. The analysis of the results surprised the scientists. It turned out that people with a good sense of humor who had a happy childhood behind them lived, on average, shorter than others. It also turned out that love for pets, contrary to popular belief, does not prolong life. But marriage, like divorce, does not affect health in any way. Those who are loved and cared for feel happier throughout life, but this also does not affect its duration.

Blind clairvoyant Vanga I believed that no one would escape what was prescribed by fate.

Own way
Let's turn to the great clairvoyant and soothsayer Vanga. The niece and personal biographer of the Bulgarian fortuneteller Krasimir Stoyanov in her book “Vanga: Confession of a Blind Clairvoyant” gives the following dialogue:

If it so happens that you see, with the inner vision given to you from above, an imminent misfortune or even the death of a person who has come to you, can you do something so that you can avoid misfortune?

No, neither I nor anyone else can do anything.

And if troubles, even catastrophic ones, threaten not just one person, but a group of people, an entire city, or a state, is it possible to prepare something in advance?

It's useless.

Does a person’s fate depend on his inner, moral strength, and physical abilities? Is it possible to influence fate?

It is forbidden. Everyone will go their own way, and only their own.”

Sathya Sai Baba made a mistake in predicting the date of his own death.

Gloomy visions

Some people secretly feel the approach of their death. This manifests itself differently for everyone. Someone is trying to put all their affairs in order. Someone begins to become interested in the structure of the universe, to think about the meaning of life, God, and the soul. And someone becomes despondent, loses interest in life, as if physically and psychologically preparing themselves for the transition to another form of existence.
The ability to predict one’s death is most clearly demonstrated in the works of poets and writers. Moreover, often the authors in their works not only foresaw the approach of their end, but also described in detail the circumstances of their death.

Nikolai Rubtsov predicted that he would die in winter.

Nikolai Rubtsov prophetically wrote in one of his poems:

“I will die in the Epiphany frosts,
I will die when the birches crack.”

Although nothing foreshadowed the tragedy then, he died on January 19, Epiphany.
Fyodor Sologub, in a poem in 1913, 14 years before his death, predicted to himself:

“Darkness will destroy me in December.
I will stop living in December.”

“In the midday heat in the valley of Dagestan
I lay motionless with lead in my chest.”

It happened as the poet foresaw. He died in a duel after being shot by Martynov.
And here it remains controversial issue: either the writers really “saw” something from the future thanks to intuition, or, again, thanks to the gift of imagination and the ability to create their own worlds, they formed their own model of care.
In all likelihood, poets somehow gain knowledge about the future from their subconscious, listening to the inner self, which is closely connected with Supreme Mind- a repository where there are answers to all existing questions.
This fact is also surprising: many people who do not have the gift of foresight and do not know when their earthly path, can easily answer how this will happen.

John Lennon became a hermit shortly before his death.

But it also happens that a person is afraid of something and with his fears attracts tragic events. It was not for nothing that the ancients said: “We ourselves invite guests to the feast of our thoughts.”
The writer Venedikt Erofeev wrapped himself in scarves all his life, buttoning his collar tightly, as if he was protecting himself from a future incurable disease, which later overtook him. The writer died of throat cancer.
The legendary musician John Lennon, shortly before his death, suddenly became a hermit, hiding in his house. As if anticipating an upcoming assassination attempt, he stopped communicating with the world and stopped going out. Moreover, according to the recollections of his loved ones, he began to become interested in the topic of murder, fearfully imagining how a person feels when a bullet enters his body.
It has been noticed that people who are destined by fate short life, they live it very brightly and fruitfully, trying to do everything in time. They say about them: they were in a hurry to live. How many brilliant poets left our world at a young age, leaving their descendants with the greatest creative heritage(M.Yu. Lermontov died at the age of 26, Sergei Yesenin died at the age of 30). While other long-lived talents began to realize their great plans only after 40-50 years. There are many artists who created their works over the age of 70. Titian wrote the most best paintings almost 100 years old. Verdi, Strauss and many other composers composed music until they were 80 years old.

"The time has come"

There is an assumption that our soul knows about the time allotted to us, and when this time comes, it pushes the person to critical situation. You can recall the story of the death of the wonderful poet and singer Igor Talkov. The tragedy occurred behind the scenes of the Yubileiny Sports Palace. Singer Aziza asked Talkov, through her friend Igor Malakhov, to perform in front of her, since she did not have time to prepare. But the singer did not agree. A conflict arose, during which Talkov was killed by a pistol shot. The singer's director Valery Shlyafman was accused of unintentional murder, having tried to snatch the pistol from the hands of another person and accidentally pulled the trigger. But, as we know, there are no accidents.
According to the recollections of Talkov’s widow Tatyana, the singer never carried a weapon with him, but for some reason he took it to the concert that day gas pistol. And when a generally harmless argument flared up, he was the first to take out a weapon and start shooting in the air, thereby provoking Malakhov to grab his pistol, loaded with live ammunition. And, who knows, maybe if Talkov had not taken a weapon with him, everything would have worked out. But, most likely, the inner command of the soul worked that day - “the time has come”, and the entire subsequent scenario was built in accordance with this.
Ancient eastern texts contain knowledge that a person comes into this world precisely when there is a need for this for the universal evolutionary development, and leaves him at the hour when the mission is completed. Not earlier and not later. And it is very important to realize that death is not only inevitable and is part of the universal world order, but also that death is not the end, but a transition of consciousness to a higher spiritual level.

Is everything destined by fate or is there a choice?

Bulgarian prophetess: “What I see, no matter how terrible it is, cannot be changed. No one can escape fate.”

These words of Vanga, frankly speaking, are not encouraging. Who among us would not want to improve our lives, and who among us would not dream of happiness... Is it really impossible for a person to change anything in his life?

It depends on what meaning is put into the word change! Vanga, when she said that fate cannot be changed, clearly did not mean all the events of our life, but only its most basic circumstances. It’s not for nothing that she said that God gave people powerful weapon in the form of free will.

Fate for a person is destined precisely in the main key points life. In what family we appear on earth, how many years of life are allotted to us, what abilities nature will give us, what health we will have - these most important features of life, in reality, can no longer be changed, we are born with them and they do not depend on our will. But there are many things in life that depend on our personal choices and that we can change. This means that, in many ways, a person is not a plaything of fate, but a free being who is capable of shaping his life according to his own will.

It is on human abilities to actively influence one’s own destiny and change it for the better that the Teaching of Life emphasizes. According to the Fire Bible, the inevitability of karmic consequences does not mean that we are completely unable to change anything in our destiny. We have the opportunity to improve our destiny by processing the karma of the past and, most importantly, by not making new mistakes that will create negative karma for us in our new incarnation.

E. Roerich said about the processing of past karma and attitude towards its lessons:

“In each life, a person can extinguish that part of the old karma that overtakes him in a given incarnation, and, of course, he will immediately begin a new karma, but with an expanded consciousness, he can quickly outlive the karma he has accumulated, while the new karma generated by him will be already of the highest quality. In addition, the old karma will no longer be so terrible for him, because the purified thinking and, consequently, the purified aura reacts completely differently to return blows. And in this way a person can get out of the seemingly vicious circle of karma.”

Moreover, helping other people and a sincere desire for self-improvement will help a person to a certain extent alleviate the negative consequences of the karma that is already being carried out in his current incarnation. For example: a childless woman, who has dreamed of having a child for a long time, is already resigning herself to her fate - not having her own child - and adopts one or two orphans. And after some time, fate suddenly grants her own child! Such cases even happen to celebrities. What could this mean? This can hardly be called an accident.

Infertility is usually a karmic punishment for not wanting to have children or care for your children in the past. But by adopting someone else’s child, parents who do not have their own, thereby “extinguish” negative karma good deeds. And the karmic negative, extinguished by the energy of new, positive karma, leaves their auras. And at the same time, new opportunities come, even on the physical level - the female body, freed from the energy of negative karma, is able to give birth to its child. Of course, this doesn't always happen. If the karma of the past was very difficult, then from birth a woman’s body will have deviations from the norm that will not allow her to give birth to a child herself. It all depends on the type of karma.

The Fire Bible says that karma happens various types, of which only one is not subject to adjustment. It is possible to change other types of karma, and thereby significantly improve your destiny.

But what if karma and the fate associated with it cannot be changed?

In such cases, it is possible to help yourself the right attitude to what happens to us - as in the case of people who are unpleasant for us, whom the karma of past incarnations brings into our lives. If a person begins to accept negative circumstances in his life with curses and despair, while cursing everyone and everything and every time reacting to what interferes with him, extremely emotionally - he will not only not help himself, but will also significantly worsen the situation , wasting precious life energy on unnecessary experiences. Salvation from negative karma, which cannot be changed in a given incarnation, lies in calmly accepting it.

Firstly, a person should not blame everyone and everything for his problems, but needs to think about what is happening in his life contrary to his will and expectations - and draw conclusions about what is the real reason his misfortunes or undesirable circumstances.

Secondly, difficult circumstances in your personal life must be accepted without unnecessary emotional outbursts. When a person suffers by meeting unworthy people or, say, having a health problem, he should not become embittered, seeking revenge on the offender or envying others, believing that the Lord God or blind Fortune has unfairly deprived him of his attention. He does not need to envy others and constantly torment himself with the thought that someone has everything that is necessary for happiness, but he is not given this, although others are worse than him. This kind of reasoning and experience will not lead to anything good. We should accept our karma with dignity, without complaining, without grumbling, and understanding that in the next life the circumstances of our fate will be significantly better if in this incarnation we do not create new negative karma through bad actions and thoughts.

The teachings of the Fire Bible say that suffering is the involuntary teacher of every person on his path spiritual development and processing of negative karmic accumulations.

“Salvation does not lie at all in freeing a person from suffering, illness and payment of karmic debt, but in awakening the spirit to the realization of the Truth and in this way leading him to the Gates of the New World. Therefore, all attempts to change someone else’s or one’s own karma cannot yield desired results. That’s why we don’t rush to help when karma doesn’t allow it. To enter the building of the New World, the old calculations must be completed.”

“My friend, if karma imposes certain and inevitable conditions, then won’t it the best solution instead of complaints and discontent, extract from them everything that they can give. (...) After all, life is best teacher. Why not take advantage of the free lessons she gives? And hardships can be met calmly, they develop stability and the strength to withstand waves from the outside. After all, everything that happens to us is just learning and gaining experience. (...)". "The Facets of Agni Yoga."

“It is impossible to avoid the consequences, but it is possible to change the attitude towards them and the nature of their impact on consciousness. This is how an ignoramus cries over material losses, but a sage rejoices, seeing liberation in every loss. So, what is sown is reaped, that is, corrected and neutralized by consciousness here or there, for karma acts immutably on the plane of generated causes. But in spirit a person can overcome the consequence in himself lower causes already with a different, new, modified attitude towards the consequences they generate. And in this aspect, a person’s power over karma is limitless.

It would be more accurate to say that lower karma is replaced by higher, spiritual karma, which concerns not the chain of external karmic phenomena, but the relationship to them in the spirit. The ignorant grieves, but the wise man rejoices when he sees that he can pay old debts. Everyone is in debt, but they don’t know how to pay their bills with dignity. Hence grief, lamentation, and dissatisfaction with fate. Meanwhile the fee karmic debts is nothing more than the process of liberation from karma itself. Paying and not incurring new debts is the goal. Therefore, it is better to give than to take. For the one who takes will always give. Therefore, it is better to think good and do good than evil, for cause and effect are different ends of one thing. (...)". "Faces of Agni Yoga."

Vanga said something similar:

“Do not complain when you suffer! Suffering is purifying. To make a thing clean, it is washed.”

“No one is born only for happiness. One is an excellent worker, but there is no harmony in his family. The other has everything, but at the same time has health problems. The third is healthy, but his children are sick, and so on. In the life of every person, good coexists with evil. This is how man is made, and this is how the world itself works. Everyone needs patience."

Christ is Risen!

Aigerim, Oleg34 answered from the point of view of sectarians, the so-called “Jehovah’s Witnesses”. I will answer you with Orthodox point vision.

“We do not choose the country where we will be born, nor the people in which we will be born, nor the time in which we will be born, but we choose one thing: to be human or non-human.”
Patriarch Pavel of Serbia (1914-2009).

Fate– an ambiguous term meaning:

1. purpose (ideal);

a) heavenly: full disclosure, life in;
b) earthly: fulfillment of earthly destiny; earthly realization of God-given powers for the glory of God;

2. life path: fulfillment or non-fulfillment of destiny (for example, Saul did not fulfill it, but David fulfilled it);

3. coincidence of circumstances (what is);

4. fate (inevitability)

Belief in blind fate, like fate, instead of communication with a living, personal God is contrary to what Christianity is based on. Saint John Chrysostom expressed himself even more clearly: The doctrine of fate (fate) was sown by the devil.

“Oh, the depth of wealth and wisdom and knowledge of God! How incomprehensible are His destinies and unsearchable His ways!” ().
Sorry. God bless you. Truly Christ is Risen!